Man Calls His Wife A Spoiled Brat After Gifting Her A Spoon Set

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/MerryChristmasAA • 20h 3 8 2 12 e 5 AITA for being "An ungrateful, spoiled brat" for the Christmas gift my husband got me? Not the A-hole
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    Facial expression - I F35 wanna begin by saying that in every holiday me and my husband M33 (we both work decent jobs) set separate budgets for gifts. He uses his own money to buy gifts and I do the same.
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    Font - We've been married for almost a year (together for 3) this is our first christmas as married couple. He mafe a list of every person he wanted to buy a gift for. I stumbled upon this list by accident and out of curiousity decided to take a look.
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    Font - I found that he's friends/co works were on top of his list with gifts that cost over 5000 total. For example: he got an $600 wristwatch for his co worker, a $250 bracelet for his sister inlaw, and a $900 workout gear for his friend. There was more but that's all I could remember. What made me upset was that when I got to my name saw that he bought me a $20 something kitchen spoon set (stainless steel). I was too shocked to ignore this and I had a confrontation with him about it. He argued
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    Art - He still says l'm being ridiculous with my overreaction and should stop. Did I overreact? 16k 3.6k ↑, Share
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think my reaction and anger was not valud since he was right in that he geta to decide what to gift who.
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    Product - Because_ThereAreNo4s · 20h Partassipant [1] e 30 Awards There's still time to return his gifts and get him a $20 gift card to the local home improvement store NTA GReply 42.6k ... +3
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    Rectangle - Solivaganto • 20h Partassipant [3] 12 Awards Girl, if you gonna be the last thing on his priority list, better give him nicely wrapped divorce papers this Christmas. NTA G Reply 4 17.2k 3 ...
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    Font - Issyswe · 20h Certified Proctologist [21] NTA. I'm stunned reading that the most important person in his life is worth less thoughtfulness than a coworker, which can come and go. In most marriages, assets are considered jointly and spending decisions are made jointly as well within a certain limit. His Xmas spending, even with a huge income, seems very excessive to me..and kinda inappropriate/unprofessional especially if they can't reciprocate on that level... G Reply 4 8.3k 3 + ...
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    Font - bellydancingmarlin · 20h I would be so uncomfortable if a co-worker gave me an expensive watch. G Reply 4 7k 3 + ...
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    Font - Few_Wasabi_8937 · 20h Partassipant [3] Nta, hard to think you're spoiled when you're getting a $20 spoon set and his friend is getting $900 workout gear. His priorities should be reassessed. 6 Reply 1 3.9k 3 ...
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    Font - Revolutionary_Use317 · 20h Partassipant [1] Bizarre. NTA. I could understand if it's a really thoughtful gift that cost like 1/4 of someone else's gift, but not even 10% of his sister-in-law's gift? Something's not right. He needs to sort it out. 6 Reply 1 2.5k 3 ...

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